How to take down a bully – at work.

12 10 2016

“ People are more violently opposed to fur than leather because it’s safer to harass rich women than motorcycle gangs.” ~Alexei Sayle

The quote is sad, funny, and makes a very subtle point about harassment/bullying.  Bullies don’t usually pick on the football players on the schoolyard.  They find someone who is vulnerable, and make themselves feel good about their social position by trying to dominate someone at an even lower social position.  I learned early that the only way to deal with a bully is to make it more painful for them to continue than it is to not be a bully.  Sometimes that ends up getting you hurt in the short run, with long term benefit.

Leaders, there are different levels of “power” in the workplace.  There are people who may be entry-level, and relatively powerless.  Those leaders above them should be judged by how they treat those with the least power.  Are they supportive, friendly, and interested in the career progression of those on their team?  Do they ignore them, and tell them to “just do your job or else?”  Conversely, how do you, leader, deal with those with more power?  Are you a “yes man/woman”, or are you willing to stand up to those above you, and let them know when they are wrong?  I know the answer that most of the leaders on my team will give – thanks for being strong role models, leaders!

Speaking of …


Rubes cartoons used with permission.




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